Another thing I see as Sexist and people call me nuts for -- when guys make plans with girls but dont communicate w them around the time of the plans. Men are Busy and women should be understanding of them. God forbid I say 'oh you didnt call or text me back so I made other plans', then I'm emotional and Bitchy. Unless you're in combat, there's no reason you cant access your phone for a whole day. No girl's gonna wash her hair until she gets a 'see you tonight' text!!!
true i’ve either had to cancel dates i wanted to go on because they wouldn’t text me all weekend then suddenly i’d get, “let’s meet in 30 min” and i’d be in pajamas with no makeup or hair done (and crying) OR i’ve been devastated because i’d get ready like hours in advance and i’d end up being wasted alone by the time they’d call because the Italian word for “dinner” is “midnight.”
anyway don’t ever fear being “pushy” about setting an exact date because women are busier than the busiest men just by default, duh